Single girls: I definitely love being me. I have learned to lo...

Single girls:
I definitely love being me.  I have learned to lo...: I definitely love being me.  I have learned to love and embrace my imperfections, I have accepted I do not have a models body but I hav...

Yes, we can live without
what' s not meant to be for us, we just gotta be strong, believe in ourselves, and know that it takes a while to heal and realize that we can survive with out it, the love, the feelings, the touchings, all those great emotions that one day made us felt we had it all. But cruel reality is that we ended up alone, again,  and we wonder if it was us, that made the relationship fail, was the timing, was it the family, was it both of us, or was it him. Him that did not know how to love you, understand you, spoil you, how to touch your inner YOU.  Well, one thing we know is that it was his loss and your gain. Now we are able to explore more carefully knowing what we want, what we need, what makes us go crazy about, now we are able to choose and pick any person we want. whenever we want and if it does not work out, then we know what to do, go on with the next in line.  Next!!!!.....

I definitely love being me.  I have learned to love and embrace my imperfections, I have accepted I do not have a models body but I have definitely strive to have a fit healthy one.  Hey I only have one, so I take care of it, plus I'm not a young chicken anymore but hey, this young chicken feels great about herself.  I used to have this horrible complex on my body, my butt too big and my lips to thick,guess what, those are my biggest assets.  With those God given assets I have been able to score some sweet good looking guys, not bragging but who's counting, because I'm not. Life was meant to be lived, and I am living it. Meanwhile I got people to meet, places to go, kids to raise all on my own!

Single girls, here we go!!!!!

I don't know about you, but this situation of being single is hard and on top of that being a single mom its a bit more tough, you gotta be mom and dad at the same time. Doing both rolls on a daily basis, answering questions to a 5 year old girl and a  pre-teen 12 year old boy.  It's challenging, guiding them both thru the right path. One of the worst questions I have to answer is; "mom where is my dad?, those 5 words hurt to answer, specially today being Fathers day. Or when they go to their friend's house and they have a great family, mom, dad and siblings. Great!!! now kids feel more left out, then I get this horrible guilty feeling of not being able to have kept my marriage.  But the cruel reality is that I am not the only one in this world feeling like this, alone.  But fortunately I am blessed and extremely grateful that my family is healthy and we love each other. I am grateful that I am able to give them what I have, what I can afford, what they need and not always what they want.  Yes its frustrating not having prince charming, the one that will sweep me off my feet, the one that is crazy about me, hope to find him soon. But meanwhile, its all about me, hanging out with whom ever I want , going anywhere I want and doing what ever I want, making my own decisions on how to live my life to the fullest, as if it was the last day of my life, that's my every day motto.  Doing kind things, showing my kids to be  kind and humble, respecting the others for who they are, human beings.  I know this single life is a result of my actions on which I have accepted and endured for a better future.  But for now, single life it is.!!!